May 28, 2008

Forgiveness. Is it that easy to come by? Not the silly things. The real big bad moronic things in life. The errors. The sins. Are you really supposed to forgive the horrible horrible deeds done by others? Is it humanly possible to forget all of the past and start afresh? I wonder. Coz I can't seem to get to doing it. I mean, if the person has erred infinitely, so much that the list is too long to remember. Am I supposed to be all good and do the forgive-and-forget thing? People ask me to forgive and move on. I can't. I simply can't.

Blood relations. How bloody important is the blood? Isn't it true that the strongest of bonds go beyond the blood? I don't believe in blood relations. I can tell you ten names of people not related to me by blood who mean the world to me, but I can't tell you the name of even five such people who are related to me by blood. And then the world says the blood is it all. Everything. Bullshite.

Money. Is it everything, almost everything, something, nothing? Can it change you as a person? Yes, I know that has a very obvious answer. It shouldn't but it does. Sometimes. It can psyche you into doing things you never knew you were capable of. Or maybe you were just stupid enough not to know yourself. It's sad. Very very depressingly sad. The way it can control you. Money is probably one of the most powerful things ever created by man. Powerful enough to control his own smart mind. Powerful enough to sway his conscience. Powerful enough to turn him into an animal.

Me and my seemingly unrelated blabber.

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

Forgiveness : Well i dont forgvie nebody for what he/she does sinful and i agree with u on ur views

Blood relations : i slightly disagree. i have had disasters with people not related to me by blood, so i came to conclusion only relationship that is by blood matters

money : thats helluva important, no doubt~!!

humbl devil said...

forgiveness...
if the person has done horrible things and still wanna admit/repent..then it's time for tit for tat...hehe
nahi toh, forgive..because it becomes a burden on ourselves..when you cling on to hatred for a long time...it starts affecting us...
so better to forgive...

blood relations...
well the immediate family matters...the rest i dunno...but i havent got any bad experiences for myself...

money...
it changes you..yes...
but that's the test of who you are...should it change you???no...
if you yourself had decided that you'll not change no matter what, then why give in to money???
money comes and goes..your conscience doesn't!!!

Anonymous said...

Ahhhh!!!! Here is someone who has a turbid mind like me. Welcome to the world of insanity.

Forgiveness: Yes I have learnt to forgive people. And I think I already have long back and let things be burried in past. Its not easy. It took a toll on me, but I had to coz the other person is human as well. If I could do wrong so can he/she. But I havent forgotten anything. It has had a deep impact on me and I am still paying the price of it. Can keep going on and on writing but as I said on my blog... somethings are better left unsaid.

Blood relations: Immediate family is most important to me. Relatives are important as well in the broader perspective. Friends are dear and about the rest... really cant say much. My world is too small I suppose.

Money: Aha!!! Here comes the biggest culprit. But in today's world is important as well.

humbl devil said...

that should have read 'dont wanna admit/repent'
gosh...changed the meaning totally...hehe

Mysterious Mia said...

its not easy to forgive and forget...n it ofcourse depends on the deeds of the other.

but i'd say, even if u dont forgive but pls forget abt it n move on...flip teh page

blood relation, well they matter the most to me, learnt it the hard way

money is never constant, aaj hai kal nahi ....

Unknown said...

Forgiveness, Blood relations and money.. it's all part of the system that almost everyone is conditioned into believing.

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